Strap-On and Silicone Dildo Kit review

Body-safe silicone, a harness that actually adjusts comfortably, and a dildo size that won't scare anyone off — this is the kit reviewers point beginners toward when they ask where to start with pegging.

The dildo is smooth silicone, small enough that first-timers consistently describe it as "not intimidating at all", and shaped to hit the prostate without asking much of you. Reviewers report it feels good from the first attempt, which is exactly what a starter kit should do.

The harness itself is soft fabric, easily adjustable, and sits comfortably enough that partners forget they're wearing it. One user mentioned their wife loves both the size and the feel of the dildo, and another said it hits the right spot for an explosive orgasm — the kind of detail that matters more than any measurement.

The silicone warms quickly, takes lube well, and reviewers consistently note the quality feels higher than the price suggests. It's genuinely body-safe, which means you can clean it properly and it will last.

The main criticism is predictable: the dildo is small, and a few reviewers found that once they'd gained confidence, they wanted more length for easier thrusting. One noted it's not even five inches insertable, which can make it slip out during more vigorous use. But for the intended audience — people trying this for the first time — that size is the entire point.

This is a kit for getting started, not for pushing limits, and reviewers who understood that loved it.

If you're curious about pegging but unsure whether you'll enjoy it, this is exactly where to start. The size won't overwhelm, the harness won't pinch or slip, and the silicone means you're not compromising on safety while you figure out what you like.

It suits couples exploring anal play together for the first time, and anyone who wants a kit that works straight out of the box without needing adjustments or accessories.

If you've already tried pegging and know you want more length or girth, look elsewhere — this one is deliberately modest, and a few reviewers found it too small once they'd gained experience. For everyone else, it's a confident first step.

Silicone is non-porous, so soap and hot water is genuinely all it needs. You can also boil it or run it through the dishwasher if you want to sterilise it between uses, though most people won't need to.

Use water-based lube only — silicone lube can degrade the material over time. Store it somewhere dry, away from other silicone toys, and it will last for years.

This sits in the pegging category, which covers strap-on harnesses and dildos designed for penetrative play between partners. Most pegging kits aim for either beginners or experienced users; this one is firmly in the former group, with a size and shape that prioritise comfort and confidence over intensity.

If you're wondering whether this is the right kit for you, the questions below cover what most buyers ask.

Is the dildo body-safe? Yes, it's pure silicone, which is non-porous and body-safe. One reviewer confirmed "the silicone is high quality and 100% body-safe."

Is this kit good for beginners? Yes, and that's its main strength. A first-timer said "this is the perfect starter, the dildo isn't intimidating at all and feels really good."

Is the strap-on adjustable and comfortable? Yes. Reviewers consistently mention the harness is soft, adjustable, and comfortable for both partners. One noted "the material for the strap on itself is soft and easily adjustable."

This is a beginner's kit that does exactly what it promises: body-safe silicone, a comfortable harness, and a size that won't intimidate anyone. Reviewers love it for first attempts at pegging, and the value is genuinely good.

The dildo is small, which is the point for beginners but a limitation once you've gained confidence. If you're trying pegging for the first time, this is where to start. If you already know you want more, pick something longer.

Available from Coy in New Zealand, or from the retailers below elsewhere.

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This review draws on 69 aggregated reviews across 8 retailers, averaging 4.6 stars. The Coyscore is 87, which puts it in the "Coy Recommended" grade — high confidence, based on consistent positive feedback and a review count large enough to trust.

The method is on the methodology page; the evidence count is on every review.

Material: Silicone (supplier spec)
Non-porous: Yes
Weight: 0.247 kg
Insertable length: Not stated
Maximum diameter: Not stated
Flared base: Not stated
Taper: Not stated

The Snug Report is published by the team behind Coy, a New Zealand retailer that stocks many of the products reviewed here. We say so on every page. Our scores come from aggregated public reviews, not from us — the method is on the methodology page and the evidence count is on every review.